Finding Purpose through Connection

Post written by Armita Mirkarimi ’25

Hello everyone, 

Happy fall! It’s surreal to be back on campus, marveling at the changing leaves and autumnal festivities that await. On the morning of the first day of classes, my friends and I hiked Gile Mountain. The world was quiet as we climbed the metal tower to reach the top. A sea of yellow, orange, and red leaves greeted us. We were silent for a few moments as immense gratitude washed over us. 

I’ve been thinking a lot about this month’s theme, “Connecting to Purpose.” Purpose takes on different shapes during our time at Dartmouth. As a ‘28, you have just begun your journey of finding purpose on this campus. Sophomores or Juniors might be redefining their purpose on campus. To be honest, as a senior, I am still trying to figure out my purpose here. 

There is so much pressure to figure out what your purpose is on campus. On the surface, it can look like everyone knows where they’re going and the intentions they are pursuing; Classes planned, jobs secured, and a packed calendar to boot. 

Let’s focus on the word, “Connect” as we explore this theme. Purpose evolves as we connect to different ideas, people, and places. It is not something that can be defined in a word, sentences, or even paragraphs. We are all multitudes with different passions and pursuits. It can seem daunting to define your purpose as we are all still exploring who we are. However, finding small moments to connect every day can shape the tapestry of purpose. 

Here are a few ideas to find a connection with yourself and others this fall: 

  1. Find a spot in Pine Park to just think or journal about these questions: What are the things that bring me joy? What do I want to be doing less of? What are the things I want to be doing more of? What does your ideal afternoon look like? 

  2. Hop on DOC trailhead and sign up for an activity that looks fun to you! From O-Farm dinners to beginner hikes, there is something for everyone. 

  3. Send the “Want to grab a meal?” text. After off and abroad terms, there may be friends who you haven’t seen or caught up with yet. Send the text! Be the one to reach out. People will always appreciate it. 

  4. Say something nice about yourself. Yes, it’s that simple! Sometimes, connecting with yourselves just takes a moment where we celebrate our strengths and reflect on ways we want to improve. 

And don’t forget the awesome resources on campus: 

  1. Student Wellness Center – Set up 1:1 time with a trained, non-judgmental listener to deepen your self-awareness and embrace your path toward flourishing.
  2. Counseling Center – Meet with a licensed mental health provider in a confidential setting to help you understand your emotions as you explore your identity and other challenges.
  3. Tucker Center – Seek confidential spiritual guidance through Pastoral Counseling with a College Chaplain.

You deserve to feel good and take care of yourself this fall. Stop by the SWC for a cup of tea or just to say hi! 

Sending you ease,
Armita